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Becoming a Just Church Resolution

The BMC board has signed onto the Becoming a Just Church resolution that has been sent to the Mennonite Church USA Resolutions Committee for consideration by the delegate body at the Assembly this summer. If adopted, the resolution will ensure that the spiritual gifts of all Mennonites are welcomed and celebrated in the denomination. A website has been launched where individuals and congregations can affirm their enthusiasm and support for this resolution. We invite you to show your support for this important vision towards a more vibrant and just church.


 Transformation So Each May Flourish by Kay Guyer

Kay Guyer served as the Kaleidoscope Coordinator

for BMC in 2014. In this piece she offers her powerful

reflections upon her experience.

If you are interested in the Kaleidoscope Coordinator position, please send your resume to bmc@bmclgbt.org.


A Pastor's Response by Karl Shelly

Karl Shelly, a pastor at Assembly Mennonite Church in Goshen, Indiana, was recently subjected to a review of his ministerial credentials for officiating at a same-sex wedding. Here is his response.


A Ruptured Circle by Carol Wise

It was a neat and nearly perfect circle of deniability....


Being Forced Out of the Church by Reuben Sancken

"Authenticity and honesty are important components of leadership. I believe the best option is not encouraging someone to go back into the closet. If LGBT people desire to be "out," then walk beside them and encourage them to be honest about being a member of the LGBT community"


Needing some inspiring solidarity today? 'Beacon Heights Church of the Brethren's ally video project is here. Thanks for your beautiful witness, Beacon Heights!

Fashioned in Love DVD Available for Purchase from

the BMC Office

From BMC and the Welcoming Dialogue Group of Lancaster, PA is the two-disk DVD set "Fashioned in Love: Biblical and Theological Foundations for Inclusion." These DVDs, great for congregations and discussion groups, feature Pastor Megan Ramer's testimony to the congregational life of Chicago Community Mennonite Church and her theological analysis of human sexuality. You may read a transcript of her presentation here.

The "Fashioned in Love" DVD set is available for $10 plus $5 shipping and handling from the BMC office. To order a copy, send a $15 check to Brethren Mennonite Council for LGBT Interests, PO Box 6300, Minneapolis, MN 55406 with "Fashioned in Love DVD" in the memo line.  Or, make a $15 online donation and request the DVD at bmc@bmclgbt.org.


Love’s Obedience

Acting on an idea presented at a Progressive Brethren Gathering, a document entitled Love’s Obedience was developed to provide a way for pastors, individuals and congregations to bear public witness to lgbt inclusion. In signing on, pastors indicate their embrace of marriage equality and their refusal to deny services to a couple based simply upon gender or sexual orientation. Drawing from the guidance of the Annual Conference Statement, The Church and Christian Citizenship that affirms God’s love that “must include concern for justice, liberty and peace for all,” the statement Love’s Obedience reads:

In this time in history, our affirmation of God’s love for the world calls us to affirm the sacred goodness and equality of people of every sexual orientation and gender identity, and to seek for all people the same good life that any of us wish for ourselves, including the possibility of marriage. For these reasons, we reject the barriers of discrimination and injustice that deny to lgbt people the blessing and support of the church as they seek to covenant with one another in faithful relationship…

In every era, the gospel challenges persons of conscience and faith to take risks for the sake of justice. Love’s Obedience offers an opportunity to stand on the side of love. Pastors, individuals and congregations are invited to affirm this statement of conscience and intent with their signature. Click here to read the full document and add your signature.


Resources by BMC


Download our resource for youth group leaders, along with our resource for youth. Contact us about organizing a training in your area.

Quick Tips for Allies leaflets

Why should my church become publicly affirming?

How can I support lgbt youth in my congregation?

How can we have a fair and helpful dialogue?

How can I support lgbt Brethen?

How can I support lgbt Mennonites?

Are you trying to figure out how your church can talk about lgbt related issues in a responsible way? Download our recommendations.


NewsNet Special Conference Edition

Connecting Families East

May 15-17, 2015

Connecting Families offers a safe space for families with lgbtq members and for individuals who identify as lgbtq. Information detailing their next retreat, Communicating a Theology of Inclusion, is available here.


Job Openings

Seattle Mennonite Church Seeks Lead Pastor

Seattle Mennonite Church (an SCN congregation) seeks an experienced lead pastor for its multi-staff congregation with a strong commitment to Anabaptist theology and values, community development and involvement, radical hospitality, and conference involvement. Seattle Mennonite is a publicly affirming congregation. A position description, including contact information, is available on www.seattlemennonite.org/leadership.

BMC Kaleidoscope Coordinator

Are you or someone you know looking for a meaningful experience after graduation?  The Kaleidoscope Coordinator is a full-time one or two year volunteer position at BMC that provides support, resources and programming for Mennonite and Brethren lgbtqa youth and young adults, and assists with general office duties. The position offers an opportunity to travel, learn how a non-profit runs, experience the joys of living in Minnesota, and most importantly, make a difference in individual lives and within the church.  If you are interested or know someone who might be, please contact Carol Wise at bmc@bmclgbt.org.

BMC is recognized as a placement site by Lutheran Volunteer Corps (LVC) and the Volunteer Ministries of the United Church of Christ. If you are interested, please talk with Carol.

1/2 Time Pastor

Covenant Mennonite Fellowship in Sarasota FL seeks half-time PASTOR. CMF is a small, intellectually engaging and welcoming church. The congregation seeks to live historic Anabaptist values with progressive Christian attitudes. Mennonite with M.Div. preferred. CMF has recently joined Central District Conference. Contact Lois Kaufmann at confmin@mcusadc.org or 800-662-2264.


In Solidarity

The anti-immigrant legislation passed in Arizona... BMC's response




Voices of the BMC community featuring current events, theology, reflection and commentary.

Transformation So Each May Flourish

by Kay Guyer


News, upcoming events, and general announcements in a semi-monthly email. Current issue:

June 2014

Special Conference Edition


A blog especially for young adults.

If an elephant has it's foot... - posted 2/14/14



Email discussion group for BMCers, our friends and family.

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BMC History Project

Amy Short, in her work on the BMC Elder History Project, has been busy collecting stories, primarily from older BMC individuals, but also from some younger ones as well. Currently she has over 40 hours of taped interviews that will be preserved for our archives, with some utilized for trainings or simply shared as a celebration of our strength and variety as a community. Amy has pulled some of the material together into a short video clip. 10 min. 2012. Click here to view the clip.

SCN Video: One Congregation’s Story

Pastor Karl Shelly speaks about Assembly Mennonite Church’s journey  to becoming a member of the Supportive Communities Network (SCN). This is a resource for congregations exploring joining SCN. Made in collaboration with Jacob Landis-Eigsti, a Goshen College graduate and owner of Reimagine Cinema. 4 min. 2012. View the video



Finding herself on the fringes of church, Carrie Fry-Miller was once a licensed minister in the Church of the Brethren. She became licensed at a young age, just after her 18th birthday. But when she came out as a lesbian five years later, her license was revoked. It has been a painful process for her and since then she has distanced herself from the church to figure out where, how and if she still has a place within. Writer, Director, Editor | Paul Neudorf. 13 min. 2011.

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On The Male Side of Middle

A story of love, honesty and integrity, this film about female-to-male transgender Mennonite Calvin Neufeld, captures a special moment in time between him and his family. Filmed a year after he began transitioning and a year after marrying his partner Sharon, this story shows how strong a family can be when they love, care and listen to each other. Writer, Director, Editor | Paul Neudorf. 12 min. 2011. View the video

Coming Out Strong

Six Mennonite and Brethren individuals from Canada and the US reflect on their lives as lgbtq people within the BMC community, and one parent offers her perspective on what it means to be part of BMC. This is a wonderful resource for congregations, Sunday school classes, youth groups, parents, individuals just coming out, or anyone who would like to learn more about what it means to be part of the Brethren or Mennonite lgbtq community. 55 min. 2006.

View the video

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     Photos from recent BMC events



Who We Are

BMC provides programming, support and advocacy for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender individuals and their families and friends in the Mennonite and Brethren traditions.

BMC Mission Statement

The mission of BMC is to cultivate an inclusive church and society and to care for the Mennonite and Brethren lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and allied community.

Mission and Vision Statement

Our objectives are:

  • To provide support for Mennonite and Church of the Brethren gay, lesbian, transgender, and bisexual people, their friends and families
  • To foster dialogue between gay and non-gay people in churches
  • To provide accurate information about human sexuality from various theological, sociological, psychological, and biblical perspectives.

Brethren Mennonite Council for LGBT Interests
P.O. Box 6300
Minneapolis, MN 55406
(612) 343-2060
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Last update: Tuesday, 03-Mar-2015 17:36:19 EST