http://www.bmclgbt.org/blog/2008/01/22/we-have-what-they-need/ brought to you by kaleidoscope - a program of BMC Sat, 22 Nov 2008 09:55:18 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.3 http://www.bmclgbt.org/blog/2008/01/22/we-have-what-they-need/#comment-34 linscheid Sun, 02 Mar 2008 20:24:56 +0000 http://www.bmclgbt.org/blog/2008/01/22/we-have-what-they-need/#comment-34 I agree that we know something (or are learning some things). But hang the "pain and annoyance of trying to convince them that we have something they need." When we create forums and spaces where we start exploring with each other what an embodied sexual morality (unboxed) means in each of our lives and start learning from one another, those who need it will come to us. I trust them to figure out what they need. But as long as we sit around trying to convince what ever "them" we select, that "they" need something--we'll end up spending all our time on that and never get to the good stuff. I'm sure I betray my age when I say, "just do it." Those who need it will gather. I agree that we know something (or are learning some things). But hang the “pain and annoyance of trying to convince them that we have something they need.” When we create forums and spaces where we start exploring with each other what an embodied sexual morality (unboxed) means in each of our lives and start learning from one another, those who need it will come to us. I trust them to figure out what they need. But as long as we sit around trying to convince what ever “them” we select, that “they” need something–we’ll end up spending all our time on that and never get to the good stuff. I’m sure I betray my age when I say, “just do it.” Those who need it will gather.

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